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April 23

Can we have it all?

Some might wonder why this girl is always pondering about something..that cannot easily be answered. Well you know us girls, we often contemplate, articulate, whatver the word might be, but we think a lot...a lot about life, about love...and..you know, stuff.
 
This time I wonder...if it is possible for us to have everything, to be able to do the things that we want and love to do, and at the same time be financially secured. This might seem to be a very boring statement, and yet a simple fact: a large amount of earning normally comes with a pre-condition that one needs to work hard. This naturally suggests that time spent with family and loved ones will only be limited, unless we're born with an extraordinary gift of wealth and luxury. And as the stat suggests, that covers merely one percent of the world population!
 
Can we then, as social creatures, live happily under the circumstances?
 
I understand that at a certain point of our lives we need to make tough decisions, ones that will determine how our lives would be led.  But is there such a thing as a perfect decision, the one that ensures us everything we want in life?
 
As I ponder and rethink the situation, I came to the same old cliche that we all need to make sacrifices one way or the other. But on what ground are we basing our decision on?
 
Clearly, that varies depending on each individual. Personnally, I simply value happiness. The fact that life is too short and that time cannot be turned back always make me re-prioritise my decision-making process. To think that we can only live each day of our lives in only a certain way, why not choose the happiest way to do it...
 
But then again, am i making the right choices?
April 20

Provence..Why haven't I been there before?!?

See the pics first and you'll understand what I meant..
March 04

Someone

Someone who make you laugh
Someone who make you cry
 
Someone you want to tell what your day is like
Someone you want to show the new clothes you bought
 
Someone you always tease
Someone you always nag at
 
Someone who helps you with things
Someone who helps you get through things
 
Someone you feel at home with
Someone you feel lonely without
 
 
Someone
 
....
 
I miss you..someone.

Finally...my life is back on track!!!

According to the plan (or my master course schedule), I was supposed to start with my Master thesis since September, just after I arrived in Holland last year. Although, first, I needed to go for an interview which took 2 weeks to be scheduled. Then, when all things are agreed upon, I finally got the contract with MB-tech.
 
That was in October and I then searched for a room in Sindelfingen, cos i really wanted to start with my thesis soon. I found a couple of places avaible and decided to pack my stuff and move from Enschede to Sindelfingen. After looking through a couple of places, I finally found a room in the center of Sindelfingen and start visiting Ikea which is also in the city. I was just walking through Ikea when the HR lady called and informed me that I needed a german visa first AND the contrat was to be canceled. I will get a new one as soon as I get a working visa!
 
So...after the almost 7-hour drive and the surprising news, we took off and head back to Holland. I did, of couse, unpack and took the room thinking that it would probably take no more than 2 months for my visa to be granted. Then, November went by, and December came. I thought at least in the beginning of January I should get my visa, and things will be normal again....well, it didn't. Imagine checking your email first thing in the morning every day, keeping your fingers crossed, hoping that the visa will be ready...soon. Fortunately, a friend of mine needed a place to stay, so I was able to rent this place out to him in the mean time.
 
Then January ended, and it was almost four months that I have been waiting for my visa. Golf had to move to Amsterdam since he is doing his thesis there at SNS bank. So I helped him move, and luckily the place was big enough and his house mates were nice enough to let me stay for a while. So, there I was in Amsterdam, still checking my email every morning for the news of my visa. And then after 2 weeks in Amsterdam, FINALLY, there it was, the email!! The next day, I took it to the embassy and got my visa issued. 
 
After the long-awaited visa has arrived, it didn't take long before I moved to Sindelfingen and I now have started working at MB-tech on my thesis which I hope would go well. The town is nice and small and is almost an hour away from stuttgart. My german is gradually getting better and the colleagues are very friendly. I guess I'm quite settled here now and my life is finally back on track once again!
January 15

Can we survive without war?

A semi-heated discussion with a housemate got me thinking the other day. By being a pro-peace person I never, really never, agree to the concept of going to war just like most of the citizen of the world.  But this conversation of ours, together with an article I came across in the Economist the other day, really raised me a question: Will we, the humanity and its being, survive without war?

 

The article posted a theory that Darwinism is coming into popularity once again, ‘the strongest will survive’ ideology that explains the ways of the nature and how lives evolve. Will this apply to the concept of war as well? Take Hitler for example, without the war against him, who knows what the face of the world today will be, or how even more badly things will turn out.

 

This might seem to be a very odd way of posting a question. But to think about it, eventhough we are not a carnivore, some of us do kill others for certain reasons, although mostly stupid ones. And this goes back a long way to the origin of man and our history. Everyone knows of more than a couple honoured fighters like Julias Ceasar, Genghis Khan and the likes. We even looked up to these man even to this day despite the fact that they have killed more than thousands of people. Why?

 

What I'm trying to suggest is not for us to justify war, and in my opinion it can and never will be justified. but will it kill us all just to live in peace? In the old days, the reason for war was to expand territories, gain more commodities and wealth through what existed on the land and underneath. To this day, what was more to Bush's reason to be at war with iraq other than to gain benefits from its oil resources and from weaponry business.

 

Will it be so hard just to take what was rightfully given to us? And provided that what was given was truely not enough, ethically trade with others? Will we survive this way, I wonder...